When should I send each Airbnb guest message?
Short answer
Reply to inquiries within a few hours and confirm bookings soon after. Send check-in instructions 24 to 48 hours before arrival, a short welcome after check-in and a checkout reminder the evening before departure. Answer guest requests as soon as they arrive. After checkout, ask for a review within 24 hours and review the guest within 14 days.
Most of a stay's messages are the same every time, and the rest are replies to a handful of predictable requests. Knowing which message belongs to which moment means nothing is forgotten and nothing is sent twice. This timeline lists every template on the site in stay order, with the usual timing and a link to fill each one in with your own details.
The basics
There are two kinds of guest messages:
- Scheduled messages go to every guest at the same point in the stay: the booking confirmation, check-in instructions, arrival day message, welcome, checkout reminder and review request. They're good candidates for your platform's scheduling tools.
- Replies are sent when something happens: a guest asks for an early check-in, wants to bring a pet, reports a problem or asks for a refund. These need a person to read the request and decide.
The timings below are common practice among hosts, not platform rules, unless a platform deadline is named and linked. Adjust them to your guests and your area.
The full timeline
| Moment | Message | Timing | Link |
|---|---|---|---|
| Before booking | Inquiry reply | Within a few hours of a pre-booking question | Template |
| Before booking | Discount request reply | Within a few hours of the request | Template |
| Before booking | Pet request reply | As soon as a guest asks about a pet | Template |
| Before booking | Off-platform request reply | As soon as a guest asks to book, pay or talk off the platform | Template |
| Before booking | House rules | On your listing before booking, then restated before arrival | Template |
| Booking | Booking confirmation | Within a few hours of a confirmed booking | Template |
| Booking | Cleaner turnover | When a booking is confirmed, plus a reminder the day before | Template |
| Booking | Refund request reply | The same day a guest asks for money back | Template |
| Before arrival | Extra guests reply | As soon as a guest asks to bring more people | Template |
| Before arrival | Early check-in reply | As soon as a guest asks to arrive early | Template |
| Before arrival | Check-in instructions | 24–48 hours before arrival | Template |
| Arrival | Arrival day | Morning of the arrival day | Template |
| Arrival | Welcome message | 1–2 hours after check-in time | Template |
| Arrival | First-night check-in | Evening of the first day, a few hours after check-in | Template |
| During the stay | Mid-stay check-in | Halfway through stays of 4+ nights | Template |
| During the stay | Issue apology | As soon as a guest reports a problem | Template |
| During the stay | Noise complaint | As soon as noise is reported | Template |
| During the stay | Maintenance visit | As soon as a repair visit is needed | Template |
| During the stay | Extend stay reply | As soon as a guest asks to stay longer | Template |
| During the stay | Late checkout reply | The same day a guest asks to stay later | Template |
| Checkout | Checkout reminder | Evening before checkout | Template |
| After checkout | Review request | Within 24 hours after checkout | Template |
| After checkout | Guest review | Within a few days of checkout, inside the 14-day review window | Template |
| After checkout | Lost item found | The same day the item is found | Template |
| After checkout | Damage claim message | Within a day or two of finding the damage, inside 14 days of checkout | Template |
| After checkout | Negative review response | Within a few days of the review being published | Template |
Before booking
The first reply often decides whether the guest books, so speed matters more than length. Answer the actual question in the inquiry reply, and handle price questions with the discount request reply. Pet questions get a clear yes or no from the pet request reply, based on what your listing already says. If a guest asks to pay or talk outside the platform, the off-platform request reply declines politely. Airbnb's Pricing and payment transparency (opens in a new tab) policy says all communication before booking must be on Airbnb. Your house rules belong on the listing before anyone books.
Booking and before arrival
Confirm the booking within a few hours with the booking confirmation, and send your cleaner the dates with the cleaner turnover message. Requests can arrive at any point between booking and arrival: a refund or cancellation question (refund request reply), more people than the listing allows (extra guests reply) or an earlier arrival (early check-in reply). Send the check-in instructions 24 to 48 hours before arrival, close enough that guests still have them to hand but early enough to ask questions.
Arrival day and the first night
A short arrival day message in the morning confirms the time and the way in. The welcome message goes out an hour or two after check-in time, once guests have had a chance to settle. A first-night check-in that evening catches small problems, such as a missing towel or a confusing remote, while they're still easy to fix.
During the stay
For stays of four nights or more, a mid-stay check-in is a light touch. Everything else in this stage is a reply: an issue apology when something goes wrong, a noise complaint when neighbors or monitors flag noise, a maintenance visit notice before anyone enters and replies to requests to extend the stay or check out late.
Checkout and after
Send the checkout reminder the evening before, so guests can plan their morning. After checkout, the review request goes out within a day. Write your own guest review inside the 14-day window: Airbnb's Reviews for homes (opens in a new tab) article says both sides have 14 days after checkout, and reviews are posted once both have submitted or the window closes.
Some after-stay messages only happen when something comes up. Use the lost item found message the same day you find something. If the cleaner finds damage, the damage claim message has a deadline: Airbnb's Host damage protection (opens in a new tab) article says to file a reimbursement request in the Resolution Center within 14 days of the guest's checkout. If a critical review appears, take a day, then post a calm negative review response.
Which messages to schedule
Scheduled messages suit anything that's the same for every guest and tied to a date: the booking confirmation, check-in instructions, arrival day, welcome, checkout reminder and review request. Airbnb's scheduled quick replies (opens in a new tab) can send automatically around a new reservation, check-in or checkout, are sent in the listing's time zone and can pull in details such as the guest's first name and the Wi-Fi name and password. You can skip, send early or edit an upcoming one for a single reservation.
Keep replies manual. A refund request, a damage claim or a review response depends on what actually happened, and an automatic answer can make things worse. For more on what the platforms' own tools already cover, see when built-in platform messaging is enough.
A scheduled message is only as accurate as the details behind it. If you change the door code method or the Wi-Fi password, update your listing and your saved templates the same day.
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Write my guest messagesFrequently asked questions
When should I send check-in instructions?
Common practice is 24 to 48 hours before arrival. That's close enough that guests have the details to hand on the day, and early enough for them to ask questions. Many hosts follow up with a short arrival day message that morning.
Which Airbnb messages can I automate?
Messages that are the same for every guest and tied to a date: the booking confirmation, check-in instructions, welcome, checkout reminder and review request. Airbnb's scheduled quick replies can send these around a new reservation, check-in or checkout. Keep replies to requests, problems and claims manual.
How many messages should I send during a stay?
Usually only a few: a welcome after check-in, perhaps a first-night or mid-stay check-in and a checkout reminder. Beyond that, reply when the guest asks for something. Too many messages can feel like you're watching over their stay.
Are there deadlines I can't miss after checkout?
Yes. Airbnb gives hosts and guests 14 days after checkout to write a review, and its host damage protection article says to file a damage reimbursement request in the Resolution Center within 14 days of the guest's checkout. Everything else on the timeline is common practice rather than a platform rule.
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